LET THEM

I’ve always operated at the level of “LET THEM” when interacting with people in my personal life.

It’s essentially the mindset of “let people do what they want to do, so you can see what they actually WANT TO DO.”

I intrinsically move through this world with generous innocence in the intention of Service, and I expect that other people are the same. Being a naturally trusting person, I’ve had to learn the hard way in life that not everyone operates that same way. Like a child that can’t tie their shoes right, I’ve tripped over my own lack of boundaries in cycles.

I’ve had a terrible time my whole life understanding my worth as a person, and that I too deserve to be supported like I support others. Because of my natural inclination to help, I’ve often found myself drawn to people’s problems without prioritizing my own wellness in the process.

For the last 2 years I have consciously and actively been working on myself in regards to my natural victim mentality I’ve had with life up until now. I’ve often ran away and avoided my own power, and this has manifested itself in almost all avenues of my life. And because I’ve failed to acknowledge myself in this way, I often times attracted situations external to me that would also reflect that lack as well.

What I have been recently learning is that if you truly want to help the world around you, your level of integrity with yourself needs to be so clear that there is no question about your standards. I have learned so much about the level of peace and productivity I want to have as my daily experience is entirely up to me to create and maintain, and sometimes that requires some strict boundaries - both with myself and with others.

My lessons around setting and having standards for myself is not anybody else’s fault that I haven’t been so clear on all that at times. It takes a certain level of maturity to reflect and understand where you are failing yourself in your own life, and then taking ownership of it instead of pushing it off on others.

Yes, LET others do what they want to do, and then it’s up to you to take appropriate actions with yourself in how you will choose to engage with them or not. But in the end it’s always up to you. It’s nobody else’s fault that you’re choosing them to engage with.

Ps... developing a healthy relationship with intermittent 3 DAY FASTING has really helped me with all of this.